Can a woman have sex like a man?

So we've all heard of the saying "Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus" indicating that the difference between the male and the female species are so opposite, it's as if they were from two different planets. I can honestly say I believe this 100%.

Throughout history stereotypically the man is the provider, the big strong masculine guy who brings home the bacon. Whereas the woman, stay's at home looking after the house and the children getting on with her daily chores; practically a slave. Welcome to the real world, this is no longer the case (thank god!). No longer do us females have to cower down to the male beings, we have our own minds, our own ambitions, our own dreams which we can achieve. Strong independent women can cope with out male approval, we can look after ourselves and not be forced to put our hopes and dreams on hold for them. Still to this day, males get a larger wage in comparsion to females. Is this fair? No. Is this right? No. Do men deserve a bigger pay packet? Fuck no. However on a more postive note, women are seen more as "equals" in comparison to previous years. Both male and females can vote, both can work, both have their own freewill but my question is, can a woman have sex like a man?

Not only do I struggle to understand what run's through a guy's head but find it hard to see how they can go about doing the things they do. For example, a guy can go out to a club/bar and find himself a bit of eyecandy. Then goes on to approach a girl with some cheesy chat up line or some kind of sexual innuendo comment. If they think that they've got their bait hooked, maybe buy her a drink or something. Next move is to feed her a bit of bullshit flattery which we (drunk) females usually fall for, go home with them then wam bam thank you mam - job done. After the drunken romp, the guy gets up and leaves promising he will get in touch but surprise surprise, he doesn't.

The lad gets a pat on the back for scoring himself some "Pussy" and then goes on to find himself a new piece of ass.

Now, if a girl does this what does she get? She get's called a slag, a slut, a whore. So why is it ok for a guy to get congratulated and a girl to get slated?

It's said that for girls, sex and emotions come as a package. When a girl is sleeping with someone usually feelings and the sense of attachment comes with it. This is true for guys too, but in a different way. Most girls are looking for love and most guys are looking for lust. For men it's easier for them to turn their feelings off during sex and only focus on the act and not the emotions that come with it. But, in this ever changing society, has it become acceptable now for a woman to do this to?

I think it's dangerous terroity having casual sex or just thinking purely about sex with no other involvement. It is believed that a woman can achieve better orgasm's with a person who they love or have strong feelings for. Biology proves that after a woman has an orgasm a burst of oxytocin aka "the cuddle hormone" is released. It makes a woman feel all warm and fuzzy inside creating attachment. So is it safer for a woman to have orgasm's with someone they love or fall into the worst situation, sleeping with someone who orginally was meant to be a "casual fling" and then after getting geniune feelings for them. The most horrid and awful type of feelings - unrequited feelings.

I think if you know what your getting yourself into then do it, but it's risky business and you maybe the one paying the price of getting hurt.

Maybe it is better to be more emotional, I'd rather feel something for someone than not feel anything at all. So really, who wants to have sex like a man?